They all say that the smarter the woman becomes, the higher her standard gets, the harder it is to make her fall in love. Most men assume that a smart woman is like the most terror teacher you had during high school or the most despicable boss you had with no heart who will burn you to hell when you started talking to her .
A smart woman is like the most ordinary girl around your block. It's just that she is independent, strong, speaks her mind out, very active, usually talkative and never runs out of story to tell, adventurous, and until now single. She will appreciate a guy who is brave enough to say a simple hi or hello and start the conversation going that wouldn't leave her hanging on the word "OK". She doesn't want to feel dominating or intimidating that's why most smart women are said to be snob. Keep the ball running with any simple topic or make her laugh and you will catch her attention and her heart!
A smart woman is like the most ordinary girl around your block. It's just that she is independent, strong, speaks her mind out, very active, usually talkative and never runs out of story to tell, adventurous, and until now single. She will appreciate a guy who is brave enough to say a simple hi or hello and start the conversation going that wouldn't leave her hanging on the word "OK". She doesn't want to feel dominating or intimidating that's why most smart women are said to be snob. Keep the ball running with any simple topic or make her laugh and you will catch her attention and her heart!
Get to know her well.
Do not immediately praise her or tell her things like “You’re too beautiful” or "You're too sexy" just by seeing her or seeing her recently uploaded photos. It’s not gonna work guys. A smart woman can smell the scent of lie and truth and praising her too much won’t work because she already know how other people sees her and how she projects herself in public. You don’t need to describe what she already know in her face. Try to slowly ask questions and let her magically express her feelings on it. Let her talk. Ask her question such as her hobbies, her likes, her favorites, her family, and questions that will make her feel like you are really into her and you really wanted to know more about her.
Do not drop the THREE BOMB words.
If you really wanted to get serious with a smart woman, do not immediately drop the three bomb words: “I Like You” or don’t you even dare to drop the deadliest three words “I LOVE YOU”. You’re really gonna scare her away. A smart girl have a tendency to love challenges too much. She really wanted the attention of a man who she thinks she will never achieve. These words will just creep her out especially if she is not feeling the same with you yet. Taking the first step seriously could make you move forward with this step because you're gaining more of her trust. By getting to know her more and more everyday, you can make her feel like you already like her. Words are not enough to prove her you like her. Sometimes, you just gotta make a move.
Listen to her.
Once you gain her trust and you made her feel that you are always there for her, she will soon confide with you her troubles and weaknesses. Never assume that a smart woman doesn't have a weakness in her. Sometimes she needs someone to ask how she feel or someone to ask “How is your day?”. And when she opens up her troubles to you, do not tell her “everything is gonna be ok” to comfort her. Listen first. Analyze her troubles. Speak as if you are her partner in life and her troubles are also your troubles. Those words are already a cliche and do you think she don’t know that yet? Be creative. Think of another way to comfort her like, ask her to eat with you, or have fun with you, or maybe have a little drink with you and tell her that you just wanted to comfort her and that you’re willing to listen to her endless troubles if that will make her more comfortable and less blue. Your action is dependable to the case of the scenario, you just gotta learn to analyze.
Listen not only on her troubles but also to her dreams. Smart women are those who are full dreams, full of plans, full of something in their minds that they just want someone to share it. Listen as if you wanted to be a part of her plans but again do not be too cheesy and exploding her with words like “Whatever plans you have, I will support you”. It’s like you didn’t understand what she’s been blabbing about and like you didn’t care for her at all. Listen and again analyze. How can you be a possible help to her plans? Offer her actions that you can to make her plans little easier to achieve. With that you can make her feel like you are offering her for you to be a big part of her life and you care for her happiness in achieving those dreams. In this step, you will surely make her feel like you are the other half of her, a person who is willing to sail the ocean as she dreams on travelling the whole world just to be happy. In this step, she will definitely feel attach to you. At this point you are almost there. Continue making her feel special by listening.
Act busy
There will come a point when you and her are spending a lot of time together. When you think she is already comfortable around you and she is getting use to the activities you do together, even for just a day or two, act busy. Make her miss you. Do not call her or let her know you will be busy for that day and do not answer any calls or text messages from her. Pretend you are busy with your work. But... Ok, there's a big BUT... At the middle of your working hour or maybe your busy schedule, try to call her. She will definitely pretend everything is fine but since she is now attached to you, she is really worried cause suddenly you lost a partial time you use to spend with her. And when she asked you back the question "How about you?" This is your chance to sound cheesy and say..."I'm busy but I kinda miss you"
Every woman wanted to feel important, and the smart woman wanted to feel significant. By making her feel like you cannot last the day without her, you are really gonna make her be totally falling for you. You can ask her out or you can just simply drop by her house and eat dinner with her despite your busy schedule. This my friends are every woman's kryptonite... THE THOUGHT OF BEING SPECIAL TO SOMEONE WE KNOW WE WOULDN'T BE...
Confide and ask for her help
For the final touch, she would appreciate you trusting her and making her feel smart enough to help you with your troubles in life. Be honest with her. Show her every part of your weakness. And by this time, you feel her caring for you too much, she already have a strong feeling for you. Cry if you can, most woman like it, not because we feel like we are stronger and you are weaker than us, but we feel very much trusted. And this is your perfect moment to drop the bomb or deadly words that will explode her heart and poison her with feelings that will go rushing down her veins. No woman can resist that at this perfect moment after all the steps you've been through. Congratulations! You just won her heart!
And when you have gained her trust, her care, her feelings, and her heart, now it's up to you what to do next. Break it or take care of it for the rest of your life. Every woman's heart, even if she is smart or not is fragile. It's really up to you if you come and strengthen the foundation of her heart or break it. It may look easy for her to move on and make herself stronger because she is smart, but trust me, the process is harder and longer than how you captured her heart. Becoming smart and strong as a woman who is independent, happy, active and single takes a lot of bravery after being broken. Sometimes, being smart, is like her mask to cover the pain that caused her to be broken. A defense mechanism of a broken heart. Not all were born to have that confidence to be independent and the bravery to continuously be happy even if at the end of the day, she is alone. To capture her heart is a tedious process but to break it is really as easy as a snap. She had become smart and strong because her heart was broken and fixed only by herself.
